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*News from Cosmopolitan*
Talk about romance with
Kenix Kwok
"Last time, I don't like dating, I
don't like guys that were trying to after me." Kenix said.The above lines
sounds so shocking. Never expected such a pretty, charming and gentle gal
right in front of me would once in her life dislike people aftering her.
"When I just newly started working at the age of 18, most of the gals around
my age were already enjoying the fun of dating except me. I don't like
guys who were trying to flatter me. Even at times when it required me to
carry heavy things, I don't like the guys to help out. I interpreted it
that if they try to help, they were looking down on me that I can't do
it myself and I usually told them" "I can do it myself."
"Financially, I also don't want
the guys to help. Even as normal as a casual lunch/dinner, I would insisted
'on dutch'system (AA system). I don't want the guys to pay for my share.
All because of wanting to be a "strong" woman, she worked very hard to
prove herself. "That time, I worked in an accoundant film in the day and
gave tuitions to student at night. This had kept me very busy. I wanted
to proved my value. I wanted people to think that I'm so capable and the
society needs me."
"My family run our own business,
among my brothers and sisters, I'm the only one
who opposed to my dad's idea of
working in our business, maybe because I'm
rebellious!" Don't worry, Kenix's
rebellious isn't the gangsters, being bad gals kind. When parents used
to lecture and advise the young by saying: " I eat salt more than you take
rice" or they would said: "With your kind of character, how are you going
to work outside? You would land yourself into trouble!"...however, Kenix
isn't going to take all these crap. " I love to said this line 'When you
said I can't do this, I would purposely do it to show you'." Because of
this rebellious nature, it pushed her determination to make a life outside.
"Later I find the 9 to 5 jobs doesn't really suit me therefore I switched
to do insurance. Here comes my dad again, he said: "With your kind of character,
you wouldn't be able to do sales." Again because I wanted to prove my dad
wrong, I worked hard and the result been me attaining top sales in every
months." Kenix find herself difficult to get along at this stage : "I want
to be the best of everything, that make me difficult to get along, this
isn't right."
My first date was with a "Siu Nam
Yen" (a guys with not much character). "He totally obeyed to me. Whatever
things I want to do, where I want to go, he would followed. He would picked
me up from work, send me to one place to do tuition, he would waited patiently
downstairs for an hour and than send me to another place again to do tuition.
After that he would send me home and we parted good bye. That time, I didn't
feel there was anything wrong with this, he didn't protest and I thought
its just natural to be like this." "That time, I only think about myself,
I never spare a thought for his feelings. From this relationship, I didn't
learn to be with somebody, on the contrary, I became indulged in my way."
"He thought that by giving in to me on anythings means treating me good.
However, when I happened to meet another guy who had more own judgement,
I feel the contrast that my boyfriend was so useless. He don't behave like
a man. When the second guy appeared in my life, I gave up the first relationship."
"There was once a man in my life who gave me anything I want, he take my
command, everyone would think that must be good. However, when people grew
older, they require differently. I don't long for all these, I hoped that
my first love would grew up together with me. I hoped that he would learn
to be himself first before he could learn to live his life with his girlfriend."
Frankie is Kenix's fourth boyfriend.
After the Pageant, when she joined TVB, she got to know him. "I actually
find him very old fashion!" Kenix smile saying: "He is a very oriental
guy, he thinks that a man must be able to feed his wife so that she need
not go out and work. In his family, his dad works for money and his mum
takes cares of the children. I know he think this way. However, now that
financially we are not there yet, I don't mind to wait for his career to
get establish while I have my own too. "When we first started dating, he
mind that I chat with other guys over the phone or eating out with them.
I find this too old fashion. But later, when we know each other better
and have confidence in each other, he knows that I aren't that kind of
people and I trust his personality. This is when we have more space and
freedom in our relationship. Everybody should keep some times for themself
in a relationship. We shouldn't tend to take control totally of the other
party."
"When we first met, the "Dai Nam
Yen met the Dai Nui Yen" (the egoistic man met the egoistic woman), we
fight day or night over trivial matters. Its really no point. Both of us
love each other deeply, but why can't we give in to each other over trivial
matters?" "Eventually, we learn to treat each other with respect. Treat
each other like great old friends. Many people would treat their friends
better, for example, when a friend kicked my leg, I wouldn't mind, but
if my boyfriend kicked me, I would lost my temper and said: "Why did you
kicked me!" and we might fight again. This is because when you love somebody,
your expectations for him/her would be higher. If we could treat our partners
like how we treat our friends, just think that he don't mean it, all this
are trivial matters." "If two persons really love each other, what else
couldn't be settle? Unless its about 3rd party. My bottom line is I won't
allow 3rd party. If I get to know there is a 3rd party in my relationship,
my answer is NO WAY!" Kenix said firmly.
To look forward, Kenix thinks that
Frankie is a guy whom she could entrusted herself to him. "I don't believe
we would have 3rd party. I know somebody would scold me silly, they would
said: "Its hard to say regarding this especially to guys, if you think
this way, you're going to get cheated!" True, we shouldn't trust something
totally and take no precaustion at all regarding this but I'm the one who
know him best. I know he isn't that kind of people. At least until this
moment, I have confidence in him."
When the "Big Woman" (Dai Niu Yen)
egoistic woman) becomes a "Small Woman" (Siew Niu Yen) "I used to have
great ambition last time. If I'm into business, I wanted to be a career
woman. If I'm an actress, I wanted to to act in Hollywood. Now I think
I've been too crazy and stupid. There are too many dreams in life and we
can't get them all fullfill, if we keep aftering it, it would only make
us unhappy." When Kenix's thinking change, she feel that sometime its happier
to be a 'stupid woman'. "When I get married next time, no matter my career
is in whichever stage, so long as my husband's career is stable, I can
give up my career to step into another stage of my life." "I love acting
but my wish is to act as interest not to act for financial reason. My wish
is as simple as that.
The reporter wrote: she has some
pressure while interviewing Kenix because everyone knows about Kenix Kwok;
she is a Miss HK actress; she has all the while been the leading actress;
she has never had negative news and that her boyfriend is Frankie Lum.
Such a frank sincere gal, the reporter cracked her head of what kind of
questions to ask her so as to create fresh news for the public...The rest
of the article Kenix talked about the birthday surprise Frankie gave her
in the canteen while filming DIF2.
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